OH WOMAN: YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH

To celebrate the International Women’s Day, I decided to share this with all the women who have or are going through this. Someone might need this. No matter what you are enough!!!!!!!!

It is possible they have told you things like:

1) Someone who is ready to sponsor your education in any country of your choice and after that, you don’t have to work

2) Someone who says you are too good for me, please find someone else

3) Someone who tries to slow down on money making and building an empire(s) for yourself

4) Someone who says I need to find myself

5) Someone who says until you stop driving your father’s car, you will not be approachable

6) Someone who complains that you don’t love him simply because you don’t pick quarrels or get furious when he is with other girls

7) Someone who calls you a feminist because you are bold to say no

8) Someone who shows so much interest in you and it cools off later, only for you to see their engagement and wedding pictures

9) Someone who says he wants to marry you and you are still ruminating about getting into a relationship and they start controlling and telling

you what to do with your life and career.

10) Someone that tells you to find Someone else but can’t stand you being with them and ego makes them to start fighting you.

11) Someone that remembers you only when your post and picture passes their timeline and they call you to come and spend the weekend with

them ASAP.

12) Someone that says the similarities are too much

13) Someone that says they are no longer interested in you but come back to say they want to marry you.

I don’t know if your story is not here but listen to this, A friend of mine told me her boyfriend broke up with her because she ate four wraps of fufu in his front and his excuse was that she can eat his destiny. Can I shock you? I was listening to Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo on relationship and dating and he said, the day a boyfriend breaks up with his girlfriend is not the day he actually broke up with her, he has done it since and his friends know. The day he told you he was just looking for the right time and place to say it. This is the truth! The day you noticed Someone has baclsliden is not the day the person backslided, it started from skipping daily devotions to Skipping bible reading and then you hear God understands.

My dear, it is possible you have cried, feeling and wondered why you are not good enough.
But you see the Holy Spirit. O, sweet, sweet Spirit. He’s such an amazing person. When you let Him brood over you and you yield to Him in the pain and tears and obey His nudging on your heart….
That peace that stems up inside you, reminding you that in Christ Jesus you are enough. Telling you that God loves you and will lead you right. Reminding you that the assignment you have to do for Abba needs you to not only make the right choice by Him but yield to how He will lead you there.
That peace will keep you going in the love that Abba has for you. You have this knowing that He cares for you and about your love life. You’ll know that He sees all that you’re going through and Won’t leave you helpless.
My sisters, you don’t have to be worried about it. Why should you? when He has shown and promised you that all of this is for a purpose and His glory.
And so you rest in the assurance of more than tomorrow promised. You rest in the assurance of an amazing and beautiful future and a bright hope. You rest in the assurance that come what may, marriage, ‘late marriage’ or no marriage, YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!
HEY LADY, RELAX WITH PEACE, YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!
Let ‘Him’ have to go through Abba to get approval to win your heart.
You are Strong
You are Bold
You are Confident
You are Enough
You are Resilient
You are Great
You are Powerful
You are Amazing
You are Cherished
You are Blessed
You are Chosen
You are Abba’s
You are Loved
YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH!!!

WITH LOVE,

AKINNOLA ABAYOMI