Happy mother’s day to all mothers, even single mothers, all those aspiring to be mothers. I love you all. You are strong, bold and courageous. I pray you attain all the achievements you list for yourself.
On this celebration day for mothers and aspiring mothers, I decided to come up with something for you to know your worth.
I AM A WOMAN:
So what?
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.
I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. Because I am a woman, I don’t have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality…..
Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The
barbaric and stupid excuse is that ”it is in their nature to cheat”, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him”
I cheat, and I am called a whore, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere
for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.
So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I could be henceforth forbidden from seeing my two children, If I have one that I am breastfeeding, I could be lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is “after-three”, because I am a woman.
A man is 28 and runs a company. He’s tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career-oriented, successful at a very young age.
A woman is 28 and runs a company, the criticism starts “Hmmmm….she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh “And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person’s gender.
Because I am a woman, I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially
buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.
Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, “a runs girl”. They never seethe possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am, because I am a woman.
A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he’s being praised
and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living. A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs,”aaah! so early? Are you sure she wasn’t sleeping with that man even when
her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She’s a witch! Because she’s a
woman.
THAT I AM A WOMAN DOESN’T MAKE ME
The question is; WHO IS A WOMAN??????
Firstly, When she is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind.
When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted.
When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a solid rock. Never hurt her or take her for
granted. A very heart touching message by a woman.
Someone asked her, Are you a working woman or a housewife?
She replied: Yes, I am a full-time working housewife. I work 24hours a day. I am a Mum. I am a Wife. I am a Daughter. I am a Daughter-in-law. I am an Alarm clock. I am a Cook. I am a Maid. I am a Teacher. I am a Waitress. I am a Nanny. I am a Nurse. I am a Handywoman. I am a Security officer. I am a Counsellor. I am a Comforter. I do not have holidays. I do not get sick leave. I do not get day off. I work through day and night. I am on call all hours and get paid with a sentence. “What Do U Do
All Day??”
A Woman has the most unique character like salt! Her presence is never remembered, but her absence makes all the things tasteless.
Feminism is not a disease,. It may have its wrong interpretation but even Jesus Christ was wrongly in interpreted. I don’t belief in gender superiority. Feminism is GENDER VISIBILITY. Let our women be empowered in every sector of life and see them making waves.
Keep Kinging
Keep Queening
I celebrate every woman in my life and love you all
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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